The Real Solution To My Loneliness Part II

The Real Solution To My Loneliness Part II

Breaking the chains of hate and fear!

The Problem:

My loneliness has solutions, I’ve been willing to think about them. Here are some thoughts about these issues and the problems.

People Like Comfort

There are things, that people hate. They hate discomfort, and anything that causes them pain. They don’t seem to understand other people’s pain very well, they can only focus on their pain.

Hate

When people hate something, in the above example I used pain as what people hate; their hate and lack of love, causes them to have fear. What people fear, they hate. What they hate, they fear. Really sometimes the only way to overcome fear and hate, is by having some love.

Ash Moonblood had a saying, “Don’t hate spiders, love them just a little. No one ever hated anything more than what they feared the most.” This seems to make sense to me. There are so many things in this world to really have hatred for, and when people have a lot of hate, they fear.

One such example is uncertainty. People hate uncertain things, because they don’t know what the results are going to be. They hate not knowing. Seems the end of a matter is better than its beginning.

Worry And Fear

Worry is the creation of fears in our imagination. The root cause, is hate. The root cause of fear, is hate. So to overcome ones fear, they must be able to have some love.

When dealing with anxiety, and worry, it is important to identify the root causes of these things. One cause, could be hate, or fear of what they hate.

Finding ways to have some love, matters a lot. Love overcomes hate and fear. So really, the solutions to a lot of my problems, are to accept the isolation, and love it a little bit. Not to hate it. Which could make me very productive. It has in times past. Many people have suffered from times of isolation, and in doing such, have discovered new ways of doing things, or thinking.

Questions?

So really one should not worry too much about being alone. What about when no one will talk with you? Should a person worry about that? Sometimes in the past people were alone, because there was not sufficient methods for communication. That problem today has been solved. So really if no one will spend time with you, or talk with you in depth, should a person worry? Maybe, it is a problem with today’s current systems of communication? Maybe it is because God hates us? What is true? Does a God that is love, capable of hating us enough to cause our isolation? It doesn’t seem logical. So what is the explanation of these problems?

Solutions!

Seems, the more you fight it, hate it, and fear it; the stronger it becomes. Maybe, the only real solution, is to love it. Love changes monsters into cute little puppies, and forgiving the monsters, changes their hurt feelings into something better than fear and hate. Love can do that.

What Would Be Good

It would be good if people were to forgive me. This way, the guilt and shame, and feelings of being unlovable, and being hated; would subside. If people would make peace with the way things are, and forgive past mistakes. That seems completely impossible sitting here right now. That is what would be required to make things better; however, the chances of that happening are none to zero.

We must break the chains of hate, and fear. The only way to do this, is by having some level of discomfort in the beginning, to have the conversations, and do the work to make changes. Life can not stay stuck in these chains, because the pain of staying like it is; is just too great to endure.

Truth

What we have here, is worst case scenario Chapter One, Paragraph One. The way things are, people are not reading, thinking, or listening. Without communication, nothing can be resolved. They can not cast all the blame on me, because I have put forth effort to both correct the issues, and make amends with them. If they are not willing to forgive, and show love; the only thing I can do is offer my love with the hopes of having nothing in return. Really, we have to forgive each other; and move on.

Closing Thoughts

Pain is bad. And no one likes real pain. There are other things that are within our control to love or hate. We should work towards having some real love for the things that we don’t understand, worry about, or fear that are within our control. If we all do what we have control of, and have some love with it, then life can get better for everyone. If they want peace, they will pursue having some love, and showing love.