Personality Problems?

Personality Problems?

How to solve some problems…

The Problem:

When different personalities have problems; very often, the problems can be solved. With some effort, and good communication; much is possible. Some people have been abused, and other people have been abusers. There are mean people, that don’t think, or listen; and there are people, who are so damaged, that you would have to give therapy to the whole world, to solve the problems.

Balance Matters A Lot

You become like the five people you spend time with. And, the TV shows you watch, the music you listen to, the news you read, and your social media activity; those all count for who you associate with. Also, who you idolize, and your political views; those count too.

Do not incline to the right or the left. — Proverbs 4:27

There is a lot to be said about being well rounded in the sphere of what is correct. Become polarized even in the sphere of what is right and true, the unbalance causes much harm… Which leads to problems with turning away from what is really right and true. You see the problem?

Unbalanced Problems

When things are out of balance, problems come up.

Sometimes, some isolation is a good thing. There is a lot that can be done when you make good use of your time. And, we are all trying to make good use of our time. How you spend your time matters. Be balanced, and spend some time alone, and some time with other people.

Communication
What really matters, is that when you are with other people, that you allow good communication. Without communication, nothing happens. And, nothing happens in a vacuum. I would know.

Things That Cause Problems:

• Deprivation causes perverse effects
• Unbalanced causes perverse effects
• Hate leads to the dark side

Restore Balance in peaceful conditions

Really, a lot of the problems come from people that lack inner peace. And many today; fake that smile, and their tone of voice, or body language is a dead give away. Most people, don’t really have inner peace. Who would? With the way the world today is looking, there are a lot of problems. Still, if you are brave, and a little wild; you might be able to be more than the living dead. We want them alive. Look alive at least. These people, are starting to sound like damn zombies.

The Problem:

People, do not seem friendly, or welcoming of others. Their hostility, shows; even when they fake the smiles, and ask how you are doing! When people are calm on the inside, the other things are easier to deal with. Most people, need to find inner peace, and let go of the heavy stuff.

Solutions:

Watch what you put into your head. Most everything your eyes, or ears take in feeds your head, for either positive, or negative ways. Some things, look happy, but really just make us sad. If you are looking at things that really make you happy, or listening to things that really make you happy, you will be a happy person.

In the event, you have a junk food diet, then your going to feel like crap. This, in turn, makes other people feel like crap. Because no matter how much you fake that smile, people pick up on how your real feelings. Either in the tone of voice you use, or the way you hold your eyes.

We Want People To Be Happy

With inner peace, people can be much happier. This means, that everyone has to do their part, and not be out to ruin other people’s days. Everyone is running at different speeds, and if you get under foot, it might make people unhappy. Try to keep to yourself, and stay out of trouble.

People, need to reset. There needs to be a softening, and people need to care. I care. That is why I’m writing this. It matters to me personally. Because, happy people are easier to deal with. And I want happy interaction with others, where people are happy to see me. For people to be happy to see me, I need to be in a good mood.

Some people ghost. That causes, all kinds of problems. Don’t do that.

The second, like it, is this: ‘You must love your neighbor as yourself.’ — Matthew 22:39

However, I say to you: Continue to love your enemies — Matthew 5:44