5 Reasons You Should Read This!

5 Reasons You Should Read This!

I will give the reasons, and it is up to you to do the work.

Five Reasons To Read This Article

1. You need to know.
2. I’m trying to communicate something. Will you listen?
3. When you understand, you can do something about it.
4. Real people care, fake people could not care at all. Are you real?
5. We want peace.

The Problem:

There are a lot of things, that motivate people. I have been thinking about the people that I know, or the people that I understand. From what I can tell, there are some very specific things that motivate people.

The Most Common Things That Motivate People.

• After you read that article, I want to talk with you about some other things that motivate people.

Love

Love is a great way to motivate someone. When people do things, out of sincere heart felt love, that is the purist form of being motivated to do something. This is a great way to get results. If you want really good results, and someone feels motivated to do something out of love, that is a pure thing.

Problems:
When someone manipulates you to do something out of love, then doesn’t reciprocate that love; you feel betrayed. Really, this is a lot of what narcissistic people do, to either get your results, or something from you.

That isn’t two way love, that is one way love; where the other person, cares nothing about you, or your feelings, and only wants to manipulate you.

It has very bad side effects, and causes all kinds of problems. Also, it shows a true lack of love from the person who has done the manipulation, and a total disregard for the other person, with no way to resolve the issues.

Covert forms of abuse, are not love. That is manipulation, and shows a lack of love; even if it is done with a smile.

Hate

Nothing unites people, like a common hatred of something, or someone. Be very careful, who you hate, because what you hate, makes you have that in common with everyone else that hates that too. Thus, people that hate similar things, share a common thread.

People that feel hate, often fail to see any side of the coin; because they are too blind, to listen, or think. Hate leads to the dark side of the force. It is better to be motivated by love than hate. You get better results from people that are happy, than people that are unhappy. unhappy = bad results.

People that are full of hate, act out in rage, anger, jealousy, backstabbing, ghosting, and truly ruthless cruel ways. It does not make a kind loving world, or life better for anyone. This world, and it’s rat race mentality, are full of hate.

Fear

Hate, leads to fear. No one ever feared anything more, than what they hated the most. People that are motivated by fear, are irrational, and have problems functioning, because they are too scared to take action.

If you want results, keeping people in fear, only serves to hold the status quo, and will not cause people to change, because they are too scared to change anything, and likely delusional.

Pain

People that are in great pain, can do nothing much. They hurt too much to be useful, and usually wind up dead. Remember, that pain in itself, does not kill. It only hurts and makes life feel like a hell. However, the actual pain in itself, doesn’t often kill you, it is the other wounds that deal the death blow.

Problems:
If you have failed to motivate people from heart felt love, hate, or fear, you might try using pain to get results; however, I have a question: If you were using fear, and hate all along; is that kind and loving? Doesn’t that make you kind of a sick and sadistic person that is really ruthless? Really you would have to ask yourself, why the efforts to get results from real love, have failed, and where the mistake is. It isn’t too late to change the problems, so people are motivated by love, rather than fear, pain, and hate.

Really if you want results, conditions have to be such, that people are motivated by love, compassion, kindness, and wanting the best results for everyone. And the methods employed have to all match up along the way. If the actions along the way, don’t match up, you have problems. See my point?

Real Solutions

Being kind, and generous. We want peace. We want real peace from the inside out. When people have real inner peace, they are more likely to have motivations that are from real loving ways.

We have to fix this. There are reflexes that people have, and those may be involuntary. A person has to have enough self control, to be able to avoid having bad reactions to negative stimuli. However, if control over the stimuli is maintained, then conditions can get a lot better for everyone.

We want good results, and we want people that are motivated by love, and kindness. People that want to do what is right, because that is what they want to do. When the other methods are being used, it leads to all kinds of negative outcomes, that can not be as well controlled, or changed. We want to be able to get good results, when people are not at rock bottom. We want to avoid, having love and kindness becoming luxury goods in life; because honestly, who could afford to live?

Really responses matter. When people, act out of love, hate will have no choice but to submit to the kindness. When people act out of fear, hate, or pain, they may not be able to control their responses. Stimuli has to be controlled in such a way, that people maintain reasonable levels.

How I Feel

To me, it feels like I’ve been a pawn in some sick game of chess. I’ve been used, and abused. The manipulation, neglect, indifference, stonewalling, silent treatment, isolation, gas lighting, ghosting, and outright dislike; they are up there with outright torture, warfare, and unlawful abuse. From where it feels to me personally, it feels like attempted murder.

Feels to me, the cards have been stacked against me since birth. And the order events have happened makes me feel that people knew just exactly how to manipulate, and control the situation, and hurt me a lot.

Really people’s motivations have to be taken into consideration. Where the actions out of love, and kindness or where they from hate, fear, and pain?

The Bad About It:
In the event, what I believe; are outright lies there are problems beyond what can be fixed by anyone. And, the results won’t be good.

The Good About It:
Some good came from it. It maybe, that I know the truth. The real truth. And from what I do believe, there is much good that could come from this, for me personally. And for others. We could all have something worth having. That would be worthwhile. We want good results, we want peace.

Some Thoughts:
Read everything here, at After A Fashion. Think about what I’m talking about, and how you can apply them in your life. It all matters, and has some value. Maybe these problems will be resolved, if not this year, or next year; perhaps before it is too late. These problems, may be several centuries from actually being resolved in whole. If we start now, in that long, things could be made better.

Results:
They have used covert methods of pain, manipulation, abuse, and torture against me. Yet, here we are. We want good results that result in peace. Where people have real, inner peace inside and out. Sometimes, you have to forgive things, and chalk them up as learning experiences. We want good results. We want to avoid bad results. That doesn’t work for me, and everyone else here too. Win / win situations are good. When no one has to loose, and everyone can feel like it is a win; even myself.

What has been done in the dark,

will be brought to the light.