The Need For Common Ground

Written By A Real Person

The Need For Common Ground

And to embrace the differences too!

The Problem:

In my life, which feels very lonely; there is the real need for finding some common ground with the people around me. Common ground, that makes you able to stand shoulder to shoulder with your fellow beings. Where you each have respect, love, and trust with each other.

Finding Acceptance

We need to find things that we accept about each other. Things that we all enjoy doing, and taking part in. Those are the good things in life.

Finding the parts that can be accepted, and embracing some of the differences as strengths that we each have.

Things To Know

Really when you are getting to know someone, you should know what their deal breakers are. You should know, what their hot buttons are, and not push them. Pushing someone’s buttons until they go ape shit on you; doesn’t make them crazy, it makes you an asshole.

Try to stick with people, that have similar taste in life. There is some benefit from some conformity. Sometimes, its good. You should however, really resist peer pressure. Yet, the leader of the pack, is usually the leader for a reason. There is some level of respect that you should have for each other.