Thoughts That Matter. . .

Written By A Real Person

Thoughts That Matter. . .

Something important

The Problem:

Life is sometimes difficult. After thinking about it; the people that are happiest, are those that have experienced the least pain. Happy people are easier to be around, than unhappy people. And people in pain, are sometimes very difficult to be around.

Solutions

Live a balanced life; while avoiding things that cause pain or prolong pain. Make good choices, and don’t pass pain down to other people. The world is a mess, and many people are passing the buck, in hopes to feel better.

These problems have to be resolved. We have to make life better for everyone. We all have to be able to live, and have less pain in our lives. Happy people are likely those who have less pain. Sometimes happy people are those who have known some pains, and lived to see the pain go away.

People fear pain. People fear what they don’t understand. Fear leads to hate. And when people are full of hate, that makes some very ugly things. That hate, puts more pain into the world. The goal is to have less pain in life. And that might very well mean, trying to let go of the hate people have.

Sometimes, you have to let go of the heavy stuff.

Thinking about it. What really defines a person? Our experiences may shape us, they however shouldn’t be what defines us. We have to have some resiliency and be able to heal from wounds. How long that takes may depend upon what the wounds are. Would you let a bad experience in this life, make you unhappy in other lives? Really you have to let go of some stuff.

Don’t

Please don’t let your hate, define who you are. Let your love define you; but never your hate.