Some Passing Thoughts. . .

Some Passing Thoughts. . .

Life can be complex, Deal With It

The Problem:

Want peace with people in this world. That means that we both have to be kind to each other. Understand?

It’s been a week with some tough lessons in it. This last week was more difficult than it should have been. Upon turning 50 last week, I’ve found that I’m really very lonely in this life.

Doesn’t seem to be anyone in this world, that gives a damn.

Some Thoughts

People that are very conservative, find me unpleasant. People only want to hear, what they believe is pleasant. And anything else draws stern disapproval.

My problem with that, is my mind is not as conservative as theirs. And, I have a lot of experiences that they have trouble to relate to. And when those people are very critical of me; it causes me difficulties to process that information.

People only want to hear, what THEY believe is pleasant.

I’m no different. I want to hear good things too.

However, we don’t all seem to agree on what is pleasant. And, I’m wondering where the proper points of balance come in? How does a person balance the different aspects of those who see things differently?

There are eight billion people in this world. That might mean, there are several billion points of view. No reasonable being could satisfy them all. And sometimes it feels like everyone is a critic.

What might help

It might help, in the event that people seek to understand first. Ask some questions, and come to an understanding; before passing judgements.

And not being too sensitive on my part, would do a lot of good.

Sometimes, it helps if you can forgive people. I’m pretty sure about that.

Like I said, I want peace with the people in this world. It matters to me. And the way things are; when people lack tolerance, it causes everyone on both sides, difficulties.

You never know when what one person believes is the bright spots in their life. And to call them black, and insult someone about them, might take away the last shred of hope they had. You want to be kind to people.

People that feel good about themselves, make other people feel good too. And likewise; the opposite is also true.

I’m looking for ways to balance the equation a little better.

Maybe people that don’t know me personally shouldn’t be allowed to be critical of me? It’s something that I’ve thought. Maybe it’s that I shouldn’t believe them, or take it to heart.

What else can a person really do? I would like to know. . .